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Day 4 – How to Create when You’ve got Writer’s Block in Life

Day 4 Create

 

Tongue tied, mind blank, uninspired, burned out, writer’s block… Whatever you call it, it’s awful.

This has been a hectic week of busyness for me, the culmination of months of musical instruction and training. My voice and piano students have their formal exams in less than forty-eight hours, and the pressure is ON. I know, I know, the pressure is theirs to bear, not mine. But a teacher always carries the silent burden of

“Have I done enough? Do they really understand? Are they ready?”

Add to that the last-minute pressures of final rehearsals, emotionally charged students with exam-day jitters, and it’s only natural to ask yourself, “Have I forgotten anything?”

It’s no wonder I have writer’s block.

To be honest, Walking in Unforced Rhythms is proving to be both a mystery and a challenge to me. I wish I could say that I’m a master at this, but I’m really not. It’s more like I’m enrolled in ‘Unforced Rhythm School’ and wading through performance reviews and mid-terms.

Father, help me.

And then, the strangest thing happened tonight. As I lay my head on my pillow, willing myself to slumber, inspiration finally struck.     Read more

Day 17: Smart Enough to Keep Learning

This largely unedited free-write is linking up with the Write 31 Days Challenge. // indicates the start and stop of five minutes. The prompt word for today is STUDY. Go!

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//  I love the quote that says,

“Educating yourself does not mean that you were stupid in the first place; it means that you are intelligent enough to know that there is plenty left to learn.” ~ Melanie Joy

My friends, just because you are tired, doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t learn SOMETHING. Studying and learning is what keeps you fresh and inspired. Believe me, there is nothing inspiring about cooking, cleaning, and laundry. Those chores NEVER end, and they rarely satisfy (although there is something beautiful about a freshly folded closet).

But the point is… We MUST keep learning! We MUST keep studying!

Why?

  1. Because it’s good for us―it keeps us young!
  2. Because our kids like it when we learn―it makes them proud of us!
  3. Because it inspires them to also learn!
  4. And “Just Because I Said So!” (This is a month dedicated to Mom Advice, after all.)

So, TODAY WAS A BIG DAY FOR ME! I didn’t really tell many people, but today I wrote my

Grade 8 RockSchools Vocal Exam

(that’s why I’ve been so absent lately, and why yesterday’s post just got published an hour ago)

exam-picI’ve wanted to do it forever but was either too busy or too scared to try. This year, with Raelynne leaving for school, and me deciding that I needed to “GET A LIFE,” I finally went for it!

Yes, it was flippin’ hard, and I worked my butt off to get to this place, but IT’S DONE! And regardless of the outcome, let me tell you…

I FEEL SOOOOO PROUD OF MYSELF!

To make the day even more special, I shared the accomplishment with Rachel who wrote her Grade 3 Vocal Exam and David who wrote his Grade 3 Electric Guitar Exam! How special is that?!

Here’s a picture that was taken of us just after our exams…

Actually, I FEEL SOOOO PROUD OF ALL OF US

Bucket List:  “Finish Grade 8 RockSchools Vocals exam”…. CHECK! ♥

Now, to sleep.

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To read more of 31 Days of Mom Awesomeness, click here.

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For more information on the Write 31 Days challenge, check out Christina Hubbard’s site!

My Manifesto of Motherhood

manifesto-1As yet another dear friend waits with bated breath for the arrival of her precious little girl, I lay here reminded. Oh, am I reminded. In fact, I should be sleeping peacefully for two hours already, but the memories keep rolling over me. I have had such a wealth of love and experience in my journey as “Mom.”

  • Was I the perfect mom? Not a chance.
  • Do I deserve a trophy for “MomAwesomeness”? (Ooooh, wouldn’t that be nice?! Is there even such a thing?)  No, I’m afraid there will always be someone more awesome.
  • Was I real? Definitely.
  • Did I do my best with what I knew at the time? Absolutely!

If only I could relive those early years with the wealth of knowledge, wisdom, and the healthy dose of ‘perspective’ that I now possess. I’m not ready for teenagers to leave home and head to college! I’ve finally mastered the art of raising toddlers, managing homework, and wading through the hormonal years.

So, my dear friends, before the passion lifts and I fall into a dreamless sleep, here’s what I’m brewing about. If I were to turn back the clock and start the MOM-journey again, this is what I would say. This is what I would promise. This is what I believe about parenting… Read more